May 27

Dear Wife Who Feels Alone

Oh how I wish I could sit and listen…..

Hear each and every word you had to say ….

Just so you wouldn’t feel…….wouldn’t be alone…..


I wish I could hold you while the tears fall down your face when words aren’t enough…..

Just being there so you wouldn’t feel……wouldn’t be alone…..


I wish we lived close so that we could be strong together….

So we could join hands and pray…..

Because God says where 2 or 3 are gathered together in my name there I am in midst of them…..

Being together so we wouldn’t feel…..wouldn’t be alone…..


I wish I could tell you that there’s an end to this feeling…..

Yet I can not…..

For I have not seen an end…..


Throughout my lonely days I strive to put all I am and all I have in my children.


In really difficult periods I cry out and ask God “Why?”

His answer lately has come through song….


Below are the songs that have comforted me during these lonely days.

Know that as you listen, as Patricia said in “PS I Love You”……

“Thing to remember is if we’re all alone, then we’re all together in that too.”


You aren’t alone…..though the feeling is there….we’re never truly alone.

Love and prayers dear sister though we’re far apart, and don’t know each other in this life.

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  1. Rachel E.

    I came across this at just the right time… it can only get better from here, right? it gets easier after the first year or two right?

    1. simplyhelpinghim

      It gets easier as we learn to lean on the Lord and making Him number one. When we learn to find our fulfillment in Him we will begin to feel less alone. Graciously might I recommend my ebook “Unfulfilled”…. It is a free download, simply click on the “My Book” button on my blog. Praying for you….if you’d like to chat more please feel free to email me at – simplyhelpinghim (at) gmail (dot) com

  2. renee

    I’m sorry for being trite the other day in chat. You aren’t alone but, my heart breaks at you feeling it. I love ya hun and I’m praying.

    1. simplyhelpinghim

      No worries 😉 I didn’t think you were being trite, plus it gave me something else to put my mind to. Love ya girly!

  3. Val Young

    beautiful post
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    1. simplyhelpinghim

      🙂 Thank you for stoppin by! Blessings!

  4. rachel lee

    if we are alone, then we are together. what a profound and precious thought.

    visiting from the Sisterhood today.
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    1. simplyhelpinghim

      It is one of my favorite lines in PS I Love You! 🙂 Thanks for stoppin by! Blessings!

  5. Kendra @ AProverbs 31 Wife

    I sometimes think music is how God speaks to our hearts. It can touch us and uplift us in so many ways.
    ~Praying for you.
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    1. simplyhelpinghim

      Amen!! Thanks sis! Blessings!

  6. Janis Cox

    I am following you from The Beauty in His Grip. It is wonderful to encourage one another. We are never alone as long as we know Jesus. I love the words of our Christian songs – old and new.
    Janis http://www.janiscox.com
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    1. simplyhelpinghim

      Amen! There are some golden oldies and some great new ones! 🙂 Thanks for stoppin by again! Blessings!

  7. LuAnn Braley

    I too, often find hope and help in musical messages.
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    1. simplyhelpinghim

      🙂 Often it is only through music that I hear which God is trying to say to me. Thanks for stoppin by! Blessings!

  8. Jamie

    I have known this feeling through life. A loneliness. In marriage, outside of marriage. I too have asked why. I don’t normally share posts in the comments section, but feel like I should share this one today: http://www.brownpaperandstrings.com/why/

    That person you want to sit with you is already there – You are never alone. Love that He is communicating that to you through song.
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    1. simplyhelpinghim

      Thank so much for sharing your post 🙂 It is good to know that we are not alone in our struggles. Thank you for stoppin by! Blessings!

  9. Helene

    I’ve been lonely a time or two myself. I’ll say a prayer for you today. There is an end. The church is a haven for the lonely.

    1. simplyhelpinghim

      🙂 Thank you much for the prayers and for stoppin by! Blessings to you sis!

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