I haven’t been counting as of late, and I know you can tell…..
Recently, I came across a couple books and their reviews, and they made me stop.
I became thankful for something that in 7 years of marriage, I’ve never been thankful for……even hated.
The books I’m referring to are, “For Women Only” and “What Your Husband Isn’t Telling You”.
Now, I will tell you; I have read the first book, but I have not read the second. So I have no knowledge personally, only what I’ve read from reviews.
These books claim to give you inside info on men; how they tick, what they think, like, need, etc. Things our men don’t or won’t tell us.
As I read the first book, I couldn’t believe women didn’t know these things about their husbands. Topics such as how many times they REALLY think about s–, checking out other women, who is the most beautiful woman in their eyes, what they REALLY think about your clothes & hair, what they’d rather have shown by action~ love or respect, etc.
I found I knew 90% of what they were “revealing”. And I hated it.
I’ve seen reviews for the second book, stating things like, “I don’t want to know”, “Now I look at him and wonder what he’s thinking…..what he’s not telling me”….
Today……for the first time…..
I’m thankful I know exactly what he’s thinking…..
About work…..about s–, other women, love vs. respect, etc.
I would not want to wonder, worry or be unaware of how he ticks.
Though honesty isn’t always pleasant, I’m thankful I’m not in the dark.