Attentiveness
Definition ~ Showing the worth of a person or task by giving my undivided attention.
I Will….
* Look at people when they speak to me
* Ask questions if I don’t understand
* Sit or stand up straight
* Not draw attention to myself
* Keep my eyes, ears, hands, feet and mouth from distractions
Week One Activities
(Practicing ~ Look at people when they speak to me)
* Practice throughout the family to stop, and give your full attention when being spoken to
Times to Remind
* When you’re speaking to someone, ask them to stop and look at you
* Remind yourself to give your full attention when you’re being spoken to
Week Two Activities
(Practicing ~ Ask questions if I don’t understand)
*Play Guess Who and/or Twenty Questions
Times to Remind
* During school or homework
* Instead of getting frustrated when you don’t understand the kiddos ~ ask questions!
Week Three Activities
(Practicing ~ Sit or stand up straight)
* Have your kiddos stand up straight and tall next to you ~ seeing how they measure up.
Ask them to slouch and see how much height they lose.
Teach them good posture, reminding them that slouching will reveal itself when they are older.
Times to Remind
* When kiddos are slouching
* Remember when you are too!
Week Four Activities
(Practicing ~ Not draw attention to myself)
* Play the quiet game
Times to Remind
* When someone is distracting you from what you’re doing
* Remember this yourself at home and at work
Week Five Activities
(Practicing ~ Keep my eyes, ears, hands, feet and mouth from distractions)
* During family time practice paying attention and not giving into a distraction or being a distraction
Times to Remind
* During family time, school or homework time
* Keep yourself from being a distraction!
In what ways do you and your family work on being attentive to one another?
How about outside the home?
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Kendra @ A Proverbs 31 Wife
September 13, 2012 at 12:56 pm (UTC -4) Link to this comment
It wasn’t until I was halfway through this post that I realized you were referring to training kids 🙂 Most of these things a lot of adults need to work on, including myself.
simplyhelpinghim
September 14, 2012 at 6:05 am (UTC -4) Link to this comment
It’s actually a family character training book 😉 Not just for kiddos 😉
Mary Beth
September 13, 2012 at 8:33 am (UTC -4) Link to this comment
These are great things to remind MYSELF! haha. Especially when I have no idea what Thomas is trying to tell me!
simplyhelpinghim
September 14, 2012 at 6:04 am (UTC -4) Link to this comment
Yes! I love the book for this study because it’s for thw hole family, not just the kiddos! 🙂
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